Love yourself and let the miracles happen

Love is the most powerful emotion

Love is the most powerful emotion  and it can create miracles in your life. Loving self means loving your physical self or your inner self? This question might arise in your mind…. Loving self is loving your physical body, loving your soul, loving your emotions and loving everything about yourself. Including your flaws…you love your flaws means you accept them and now when you accept them you can change them. Remember no one on this earth is perfect.

Importance of self-love

Self-love is important as it creates very positive effect in your life, which can lead you to a new way full of miracles that can change your entire life for good. Miracles like change in behavior of others who dislike you, attracting more positive people and friends in your life, attracting things that make you happy, getting compliments, luck following you, Negative people vanishing from your life, Improvement in health, reducing fat and many more. All these things may sound external effects but the moment you change your internal environment external environment also changes. So once you start loving self you shift your thoughts from negative to positive and these positive thoughts have a ripple effect in your life. They just spread in all directions.

Baby step towards loving self

Self-love elevates your self-confidence so in order to start loving yourself make a list of all things you love about yourself. Focus on them and give them a feeling of love. When you start loving those things about you, it could be related to what you do, how you do or it may be about your physical self, inner self etc., but when you start loving it others will also fall in love with it. No matter how you look, what you wear, what is your background or what you are today, its all about the attitude you carry. Self-love gives you that confident attitude. Nourish your mind, body and soul with love. You cannot love and hate at the same time. Love will replace all the feelings of self-criticism, self-doubt with positive and more fruitful thoughts.

Self-love or selfishness

Don’t get confused between self-love and selfishness. Self-love is a positive feeling it is not being obsessed by self, it is a pure respect for oneself. It should be used as a tool to clear inner polluted environment and convert it into a fresh environment. How do you distinguish between self-love and selfishness? self-love does not harm anyone this is the only one way to distinguish. And selfishness does harm others. You will never be happy by harming others no matter how much you love yourself.

Neglect Self-doubt and believe in self-worth

I feel pity for people who believe there existence depends on someone else who is a complete different individual. People commit suicide, go in depression, or harm oneself, it happens due to lack of self-love. The person who loves self in the first place can never go in depression or be unhappy. How can you expect others to care for your feelings if you yourself do not care for your feelings? A self-loving person is a source of unlimited happiness and everyone loves such a person. Remember life is about how you live life  not how others want you to live. Love yourself to the fullest and then only you will be able to live life to the fullest. Your mistakes, your weaknesses do not define you. We all are humans and we cannot be completely perfect. Don’t trust on what others say about you, those are their thoughts and let them be limited to them. Install a antivirus in your brain and kill the virus that creates self-doubt. If others doubt on your capability it is ok but if you doubt on your capability it is a problem. When I was in school I always doubted on my capabilities. I never had courage to participate in different competitions and win them. I was not one of my teacher’s favorite because I never created that confidence in her. It was my fault my self-doubt pulled me back every time and I kept blaming others that they don’t give me chance. I was capable but not confident. When I became aware of all these things I started to work on myself. I accepted my weaknesses and changed them into my strengths. As my internal environment changed my external environment started to change and one after the other miracles started to happen and trust me today I am much happier then what I was before.