We all seek happiness in life but being happy all the time is quite difficult not because we have many problems in life but because we cannot keep balance between emotions and daily life experiences.
Many of us have to deal with many critical situations at home as well as at work and based on those situations out emotions change. No doubt there are good experiences also which make us happy but human nature is very strange it remembers the bad experiences most often then the good ones. But that's not an issue here are three known, but very important facts of life one should always remember.
Happiness is in mind
Most of us stay unhappy because our Happiness depends on others as what others say, how others behave or how they treat us. Very few people don't care about what others think of them. Instead of focusing on others we should focus on ourselves. We cannot control the way others behave but we can control the way we behave as it is in our hands. And we can very well manage to stay happy by choosing to react in a right way or I would rather say choosing to react the way which will not hamper your mood and you will be happy. By reacting to a situation blindly you will end up in argument or fight which will take away your positive energy and make you more prone to such situations which will never give you happiness. But by choosing the right way you can stay happy and avoid unnecessary fights. Keep your internal environment clean and peaceful. Probably if you start loving yourself and take a little conscious effort towards keeping the mind calm and balanced it will become very easy to stay happy. Remember happiness is in mind and one can be happy anytime, it is just the matter of choice, whether you choose to be happy or sad.
Change is the rule of nature
Nothing on this earth is constant. Like time everything keeps on changing. So whenever you feel bad, depressed, angry or any such kind of negative emotion surrounds you, you need to keep one thing in mind it is going to end sooner or later. Take anything for example success, failure, happiness, sorrow, suffering etc. All these things are not constant in fact they constantly keep on changing. So there is no need to get too much exited when you get success or feel depressed by failure both will change with the time. This is a fact and you must also have experienced this, any bad time in your life or any bad situation is not constant it changes after some time.
Every experience is a learningNothing on this earth is constant. Like time everything keeps on changing. So whenever you feel bad, depressed, angry or any such kind of negative emotion surrounds you, you need to keep one thing in mind it is going to end sooner or later. Take anything for example success, failure, happiness, sorrow, suffering etc. All these things are not constant in fact they constantly keep on changing. So there is no need to get too much exited when you get success or feel depressed by failure both will change with the time. This is a fact and you must also have experienced this, any bad time in your life or any bad situation is not constant it changes after some time.
You may come across many different experiences in day today life, some might be good some might be bad for example someone praises you for your skill and at the same time someone criticizes you. You become happy for compliment and get disheartened for criticism. But instead you should be happy for the criticism which gave you opportunity to improve your skill set for betterment. Your critics show you your hidden talents.( know your hidden talents through your handwriting )As they polish you to perfection and give a chance to explore yourself. Good experiences or bad experiences all are learning.

"I haven't failed, I have just found 10000 ways it won't work." - Thomas Edison
If you peep into your past events you will understand one thing your failures actually prepared you for your betterment. And it is 100 percent true. So stop complaining and enjoy every experience that comes your way.
If you peep into your past events you will understand one thing your failures actually prepared you for your betterment. And it is 100 percent true. So stop complaining and enjoy every experience that comes your way.
Always remember these three facts and life will be not only simple and easy but also full of miracles. (Love yourself and let the miracles happen )
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